When the powers collide
When people of different temperament, values, beliefs and goals come together there will be friction and eventually there will be problem to tackle. I had been there and still facing it now and then. When there is a problem you have a choice to burry your head on the sand and remain a victim or to raise your head and face the challenge ahead. I had been an ostrich buried in the sand, helpless when the problem becomes too gigantic. So, what do you do to face the problems? You require the following skills to come out of problems.
1. Ability to take firm decisions quickly
2. Communicate well and faster
3. Guys will always misunderstand you (its part of life) and so clarify them as quick as possible.
4. Be ready to loose the game (don’t play to win always) if you stay to win longer the problem may become bigger and gigantic.
5. Do not fall into dependencies – you will remain as a slave for ever.
6. See alternatives
7. Take advice but don’t follow it unless you have the same set of values and conviction.
But there are situations where everything goes upside down and so what do you do? All you need is to be brave and face the challenges ahead. Let the other party be right because you know you are right in your world and so, let the other party feel right in his own way. You will get your turn when time comes by.
Stand firm with your values even if you change over a period of time…Stand Firm. Let the guys misunderstand you, do not bother too much about it because that’s the way world works.
IF the other guy always says you are wrong… either run away from him or stay there until both get into good terms and I will always choose the latter.
1. Ability to take firm decisions quickly
2. Communicate well and faster
3. Guys will always misunderstand you (its part of life) and so clarify them as quick as possible.
4. Be ready to loose the game (don’t play to win always) if you stay to win longer the problem may become bigger and gigantic.
5. Do not fall into dependencies – you will remain as a slave for ever.
6. See alternatives
7. Take advice but don’t follow it unless you have the same set of values and conviction.
But there are situations where everything goes upside down and so what do you do? All you need is to be brave and face the challenges ahead. Let the other party be right because you know you are right in your world and so, let the other party feel right in his own way. You will get your turn when time comes by.
Stand firm with your values even if you change over a period of time…Stand Firm. Let the guys misunderstand you, do not bother too much about it because that’s the way world works.
IF the other guy always says you are wrong… either run away from him or stay there until both get into good terms and I will always choose the latter.
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